THE Answer to Happiness… or AN Answer at Least

28 Apr

Alot of people have come to me recently, after reading my blog and wanting to start their own blog, asking me how I do it, what to do, how to get started, what if people don’t like it, how to pick  topics, etc, etc.

And I say to them…Copiers!! haha just kidding… maybe 😉

However, the real answer: There is no method to my madness and that’s what it is… madness. My brain is on overload all day long 24/7 (I have a hard time getting my brain to shut off just to go to sleep).

I think a public forum, such as a blog, is more along the lines of a journal and therapeutic, for myself personally. I have no idea what I’m doing, but know that I really like it and foremost it’s for me, plus I really don’t care what other people think (Thank goodness right?? If I did, I would need a rock and a hole really quick to go hide in).

I got some nasty comments awhile back and decided then and there, either I back up what I’m saying and by doing that I’m backing up who I am… or I don’t… and then if I don’t, I have no business writing on the internet anyways.

These are philosophies that need to be used in everyone’s life in anything you choose to do. If you can’t support, believe in, and love yourself then why should anyone else? (My mom is chuckling to herself right now saying “I told you so!” Lord help me.)

I believe in the concepts of, if you build it they will come, if you do what you love then good things will come from it, and “hard work beats talent, when talent doesn’t work hard.”

Whether it be sports, or having children, or collecting stamps, or chasing chickens… if you do what you love, put yourself out there, and work hard at it… then you have achieved something within yourself that no one else can take away from you. That love and desire, that passion in something will shine and attract others to the positiveness, HOPEFULLY bringing about “aha” moments and direction in life, leading to the ultimate happiness.

And that’s what life is truly about, right? Being happy, following your dreams, and making the most of what you’ve got.

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